People are too accessible in today’s world. Many people have cell phones, work phones, and home phones. This makes for a life with very little privacy or peace. There is no reason why you have to answer the telephone every time it rings. Take back your life and take control of when you answer the phone.
In addition to family and work phone calls, there can also be constant sales calls. Your first step in taking back the control of when you answer the phone is to place yourself on the national do not call registry. This will cut way down on unwanted sales calls. Most cell phones and land lines you purchase now include a caller ID. It’s a service that’s activated by contacting your phone company for small fee. This fee is well worth it. This way you can look at the caller ID screen and know who’s calling so you can decide whether or not you want to answer the phone.
If you are a person who cannot resist the urge to pick up the phone when it’s ringing but you need some peace and quiet trying using your ringer silencer in conjunction with a voicemail feature. This is also a service well worth paying for from the phone company. The voice mail will take messages for you when you are on the phone with someone else, when you’re not there, when you’re online if you still have a dial-up modem, and if you just plain don’t want to answer the phone.
Together caller ID, the ringer silencer and voice mail allows you to effectively screen calls. Say you’re having a romantic evening with your spouse? No one wants to have his or her evening interrupted by a mother-in-law calling to nag about why you don’t visit anymore. You’d hear the message on an answering machine, feel massive guilt and suffer a ruined evening. On voice mail the message will wait until the next day when it will be more convenient to answer her call apologize and make arrangements to visit soon.
On a similar vein, if you are sitting down to a meal or having family time make it a general rule that no one is to answer the phone during meals and family time. Make sure you check any messages when you are ready to answer the phone again in case of emergency. Most of the time, the phone call isn’t an emergency however.
Just because you have all kinds of telephones at your disposal doesn’t mean you are required to answer the phone every time it rings. Sometimes it’s best just to step away from all our technological toys, and then you can get back to everyone when you are in a better frame of mind to listen.
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