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Marriage Ceremonies in South Asia

Marriage ceremonies in this part of the world is not just two people tying the knot, it is the coming together of two families and by that it is implied that a 1000 people will be invited, fed and entertained even if the groom and bride can't afford it. Parents pay most of not all of the wedding expenses in these cultures and therefore they also have a big say into what goes where and what happens when.

Traditional Aspects

One of the most popular things that take pace during Indian marriage preparations is the singing and dancing by all family members and the application of henna for the bride as well as her friends a day or two before the wedding. The more affluent echelons of society hire professionals to come and grace the occasion with their song and dance routines whereas others just rely on cousins and friends to liven up the party until the wee hours of the night.

Lots of customary things take place such as putting a turmeric paste on the brides body to apparently make her skin fairer and freckle-free and asking seven married women to bless her so that her husband too has a long life.

Pakistani marriage events also are similar except that they have an Islamic aspect to it as far as the 'nikah' is concerned which is a contract which the bride and groom sign in order to get married. It gives the girl and the boy the option to divorce whereas Hindu (Indian) cultures do not technically have that option.

Both cultures also usually have the newlyweds be invited to several parties on both sides of the family soon after the wedding. They usually have such feasting for weeks in a row so that everyone is introduced to the new couple. Many families have the newlyweds live with the in-laws in a joint family system whereas other more forward thinking people prefer them to start their new life in their own place.

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